A conversation with your future self

Life can be tough, like a storm that hits when you least expect it. Sometimes you just need someone to guide you through chaos. What if you could have a conversation with your future self? What would you want to find out? Rastrika Shakya from ApEx talked to three individuals to know their thoughts.

Bishesta Shilpakar

It’s impossible yet so interesting. What if I could have a conversation with my future self? There’s a lot to ask but most importantly, I would ask about the valuable teachings learned from life’s experiences. I’d seek advice on bouncing back from challenges, embracing change, and staying true to my authentic self. I would collect some ideas for my personal growth.

Ultimately, I would approach this conversation with a yearning to glean wisdom from the experiences that lie ahead, hoping to gain insights that could illuminate my present journey and guide me towards a future marked by growth, authenticity, and profound connections with both myself and those around me.

Anushka Shakya

If I could grab a coffee with my future self, I’d probably dive into some real talks. Like “Hey future me! Any pro tips on overcoming fear of judgment? And seriously, how do we navigate social scenes without feeling like we’re about to perform in a talent show? Moving on is tough, any tricks for not clinging to things that seem important? Emotionally maturing, where do I even start with that? And ADHD, any hacks for handling it while figuring out how to make a living? Learning from mistakes sounds good, but how do I really nail that? Also, what’s the limit to how much I can learn? Oh, and the big question: Am I, like, rich?”

Sakar Mahat

If I could have a conversation my main curiosity would be on the journey of my life and the lessons learned from the mistakes I made along the way. I would dive straight into asking if, without realizing it, I ended up hurting someone. It’s a heartfelt inquiry to understand the ripple effects of my actions. And then, the talk would get real personal. I’d want to know if the decisions I made left me feeling content or if there were moments of looking back and wishing I took a different turn. It’s not about dwelling on regrets but more like getting some insider tips from the future me on how to steer the ship with fewer hiccups. This whole conversation would be like a friendly reboot button for myself. It’s like having a future version of me exchanging notes and gearing up for a smoother journey ahead.